Help for Singles and Dating Couples
Watch this Special Message from Dr. Raymond Force, Christian Life, Marriage, and Relationship Coach (Counseling Alternative), to all Teens (Teenagers), Singles, Dating Couples, and Parents of the Same. This is one of the most important messages that we share with teens, dating couples, and parents:
If you are unable to watch this free, online Christian video on premarital issues, be sure to read the following Special Message from Dr. Raymond Force to all teens (teenagers), singles, dating couples, and parents of the same:
I have come to the conclusion that many teens and singles today are enrolled in a class that I call Divorce 101. In fact, I often say that most are enrolled, few have failed, and even I passed with “flying colors”. No. I’ve never been divorced. Thankfully, I have one of the forty-seven out of a hundred marriages that actually make it today, however, I would have to say that if it wasn’t for the grace of God, my wife and I would be in a different category today.
Divorce 101. Can it really be? Could we label what most teens and singles experience before marriage a syllabus called Divorce 101 or Divorce Preparation? Is the average home, school setting, TV show, and dating scene more of a training ground for those that will have a mediocre or a dismal marriage? I am emphatically convinced that this is the case, and I challenge everyone that is either single or has some type of influence over someone that is single to listen very carefully for the next few moments.
Now, I realize that when two rivers come together, there will always be a certain amount of whitewater that will occur, however, must there be so much for the many newlyweds of our day? Does the first year of marriage have to be as difficult as many are experiencing?
Really, while many preachers are loudly proclaiming the blessings of marriage some are wondering if God hasn’t played some type of cosmic joke on mankind by giving us the institution of marriage.
Now, what’s wrong with this picture? I think I’ve discovered a major part of the answer. As a matter of fact, I really don’t believe the problem starts the minute a couple says, “I do”, nor do I believe that couples mysteriously fall out-of-love. This, in my opinion, is a major mistake. In reality, the problem begins with many before the wedding day.
You see, whether conciously or subconsciously many are enrolling in Divorce 101 when they are young, and they are learning lessons and habits that will prove to hurt them for life. That is, many teens and singles are picking up different forms of emotional, spiritual, and mental baggage that will be sure to weigh down their future relationships, and unfortunatley, many today, by the time they get married, are just throwing out the marriage instead of the baggage that is weighing down their marriage.
At Hitting Home, we are on a mission to transfer as many teens and singles as possible from Divorce 101 to, let’s say, Marriage 101. This is why we have produced our Audio Cd Series called Divorce 101 – How to Prepare for a Mediocre or a Dismal Marriage.
This Audio Cd series details the specific ways that teens and singles today are actually preparing for a mediocre or a dismal marriage. That is, we believe that our society is actually doing more to prepare our young people for divorce rather than a healthy, vibrant marriage, and, in this Audio Cd series, we talk about the specific ways that many teens and singles are ensuring that they will have more difficulties than needed when they enter into the realm of marriage.
Here are a few of the topics covered in our Audio Cd Series:
The dangers behind teens and singles getting their sexual car going 100 miles an hour literally years before their wedding day
Why though many single ladies want a man that will come around for all the right reasons, they are attracting the type of men that only come around for all the wrong reasons
The extremely risky gamble that many single men and women or boys and girls are taking that they almost always lose
How most men do not morphe into a selfish jerk after the wedding day. In fact, the signs of their selfish tendencies are typically prevalent before the wedding day
How to tell if a current boyfriend, girlfriend, or potential spouse even possesses the ability to love in a way that actually makes a marriage work
The signs of an unhealthy premarital relationship
What is acceptable and unacceptable in a premarital relationship
How to avoid sexual temptation
How Premarital Sex will Hurt a Marriage
The real purpose of a premarital / premarriage relationship
The importance of drawing boundaries in a premarriage relationship before hormones become the ruling factor
How modesty helps single girls, ladies, and women to get what they really want in a relationship
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At Hitting Home, we are on a mission to transfer as many teens and singles as possible from Divorce 101 to, let’s say, Marriage 101. Below are a few of our articles on teen sex, premarital sex, the dangers of premarital sex, abstinence, modesty, what the Bible says about modesty, the dangers of the typical dating scenario, courtship, sex outside of marriage, the importance of parental involvement in the lives of their children, how to preserve virginity, et cetera.
Hitting Home is a Christian-based organization that provides Christian Marriage, Life, and Relationship coaching (counseling alternative) to areas all over the globe through our speaking engagements, Christian-based resources, Audio Cds, materials, and live, coaching sessions (counseling alternative). Please let us know how we can help. Either search our site, or call us at 1-888-354-2346.
Christian-based Rules (Tips) for Teens, Singles, and Dating Couples
Why Premarital Sex Sets You Up for the Great Let Down (Importance of Abstinence)
Concerned about the Way My Daughter is Dressing
Signs of an Unhealthy Premarital / Premarriage Relationship
Why is it Important for a Lady / Girl / Woman to Dress Modestly?
Is it Wrong or Harmful to Have Sex before Marriage? (Lose Virginity)
How Sex Before Marriage Will Hurt a Marriage
Why Do I Attract the Wrong Guys (Girls)
Parent Looking for Christian Resource for Teenager on Premarital Sex and Keeping Virginity
What’s Wrong with Sex Before Marriage (Premarital Sex)?
Teens, Sexual Temptation, and Being Out of School (Summertime)





