Is Your Marriage on a Merry-Go-Round?
Is Your Marriage on a Merry-Go-Round? – by Christian Marriage / Youth Speaker, Dr. Raymond Force
When you and your spouse disagree, do you typically end up on a merry-go-round that leaves the both of you almost nauseous with emotion? Are you afraid that if this keeps up, your golden years will be more like rust years? Is there a better way? Is it possible to actually enjoy a win-win relationship where God, the husband, and the wife are all pleased? Of course, my answer is yes, however, if you are going to achieve the goals that God has for every marriage, couples must be willing to make a few changes. These changes include the following:
1. Admit that their ways of handling their disagreements are futile.
If a businessman used a particular form of advertising that never worked, would he continue to squander his money on that mode of advertisement? The answer is obvious. He wouldn’t. In the same way, many couples continue to pay a horrible price for the chance to ride on the merry-go-round of anger and strife when the ride leads them to the same place that it has always led them.
Our Audio Cd Series, How to Break the Cycle of Resentment and Anger in a Marriage, coaches couples to handle problems in way that keeps them in a problem-solving mode. If not, couples will spend the rest of their lives going round and round and round and . . .
2. Work on their own stuff.
I often say that cycles are made up of two parts. That is, if your marriage is in a cycle of resentment and anger, your spouse may own half of that cycle, but you own the other. Our Audio Cd Series teaches you how to deal with your half of that cycle.
3. Understand that God’s ways really work.
Solomon said that there is nothing new under the sun, and our 2-Step process is nothing new, it is just a repackaging of Biblical principles. To be honest, my wife and I are only where we are at today because of God’s grace and God’s wisdom, and our 2-Step process purports the Biblical principles that have helped us and many others to walk over the bride of forgiveness and enjoy a God-filled marriage.
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Article Written by Christian Marriage Speaker and Coach, Dr. Raymond Force
